Staying in Touch From Afar: The Best Long Distance Sex Toys of 2019

We all know how challenging a long distance relationship can be. One of the most difficult issues in a long distance relationship a lack of intimacy.

Manufacturers of vibrators have been listening and are now creating products to accommodate couples keeping the love alive from a distance.

When you are separated from your partner, communicating about your sexual needs may become even harder than before.

For anyone wanting to know how to get hot and heavy from far away, here is a guide on the best long distance vibrators out there.

Quick Comparison of the Best Long Distance Sex Toys


Our Rating


Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Create Your Own Penis Molding Kit

We-Vibe Jive

We-Vibe Bloom

We-Vibe Sync

​We-Vibe Verge



Nuo Butt Plug

The New Age of Phone Sex

From Snapchat, to Skype, to Facetime, there are a dozen ways you can keep in touch with your partner during a long distance relationship.

The new age of phone sex is much more than just watching your partner masturbate or listening when they climax.

Sure, it’s fun to play while watching your partner masturbate, but what if you could actually control the intensity of the orgasm or the how your partner experiences an orgasm.

This is where a long distance vibrator comes in handy.

Many of the long distance vibrators are controlled with a downloadable smartphone app which allows one person to control the action whether you are in the bedroom together, on the phone or hundreds of miles away.

A long distance vibrator can help you put that spark back into your relationship by offering an easy way to become intimate with each other in a fun and orgasmic way.

The sky's the limit for intensified orgasms and longer relationship when you try a long distance vibrator.

How to Make Long Distance Relationships Suck a Little Less

Long distance relationships can be hard for all parties involved. When you purchase a long distance vibrator, you can help cut down on the stress created by lack of intimacy.

We all know that foreplay is essential to a great orgasm, and a long distance vibrator is just the way to make sure you don’t miss out.

Couples can really engage with each other from afar with one person controlling the intensity of the vibrations, while the other relaxes into orgasmic ecstasy.

Most long distance vibrators can be programmed with specific vibrating motions to imitate your partner’s favorite move while having sex.

There are only positive vibes when you start to use a long distance vibrator in your otherwise mundane relationship.

What Makes a Good Long Distance Sex Toy? 

There are many unique features you should look for when you are purchasing a long distance vibrator.

Specifically, you want to say on the lookout for features such as downloadable smartphone apps, programmable vibrating motions and speeds, the material of the vibrator, and whether or not the vibrator is waterproof.

Couples and individuals can find a long vibrator in just about any size and shape, from a butt plug, to G-spot stimulator, to a vibrating cock ring.

Materials can run the gamut, but we recommend only buying a 100% pure silicone long distance vibrator for the sake of hygiene.

Whether you are interested in dual stimulation or anal stimulation, there is a long distance vibrator for you.

Review of the Best Long Distance Sex Toys

Now that you know more about how a long distance vibrator can help improve your sex life when you’re in a long distance relationship, you need to find the right vibrator to fit all your needs.

We’ve looked into several long distance vibrators and below you will find the main features, positive things, and things to be improved for each model.

1. Clone-A-Willy Vibrator

If you like to get messy before you even get into the bedroom then the Clone-a-willy Vibrator kit might just be the toy you’re looking for.

While not your typical “from afar” toy, the uniqueness of the kit and the pleasure derived from it, allows it to make the list for a very specific reason; how else are you meant to enjoy someone’s penis from the other side of the world? Let alone a vibrating version of it.

This kit allows you to make an almost exact copy of any erect penis, insert a vibrator into it and take it anywhere you want. Within reason.

The kit comes with the materials to create a platinum-cure silicone solution, that you add to the molding tube in order to create the dildo.

This means that you can take the mold of penis anywhere you want, enjoying it anytime you want. Within reason of course.



  • Can turn the resulting dildo into a vibrator
  • Creates an accurate mold of any penis you want


  • Very messy
  • Have to get it right or may need to try again

Bottom Line

If you are looking for something that takes up a bit of time in the afternoon and provides some fun afterwards then this may just be your toy.

This is definitely for the more adventurous and fun loving couples as it does require a bit of time to get right.

However if you do you end up with a fun and usable vibrator that can be taken anywhere.

2. We-Vibe Jive

The digital age is truly taking over and it was only a matter of time before it extended into our sex lives.

The We-Vibe Jive Love Egg is an app controlled, insertable egg vibrator than can be controlled from anywhere, with a simple smartphone app.

Want to control it hands free in the bedroom? Not a problem!

Fancy making your partner quiver while on the other side of the country? Just as easy!

With the simple app you can control the speed, intensity and pattern of the vibrations, from anywhere with an internet connection.

On the design, the egg has 2 major parts: the insertable egg and a more flexible stem/handle that holds it in place while it is inserted.

Only the egg vibrates however, which may leave some wishing that the stem did as well, for clitoral stimulation.

The egg has a 2 hour battery life for prolonged sessions and is waterproof for underwater play as well.



  • Up to 2 Hours of battery for extended use
  • Variable settings and controls for mixing it up
  • Usable from anywhere with the We-Vibe app. Great for those in long distance relationships


  • Can be a bit loud for public use
  • Vibration settings may feel weak for some people

Bottom Line

For anyone who currently resides in a long distance relationship and fancies having the power to pleasure their partners across the globe, the We-Vibe Egg is a great solution.

With a decent battery and easy to use app from We-Vibe you can control the intensity and power of the egg from anywhere.

Just be aware that it may be a bit loud if your partner wants to wear it in public.

3. We-Vibe Bloom

If you want to mix a workout with pleasure then the We-vibe Bloom Kegel Balls may just be for you.

The We-Vibe balls come in a sleek and easy to insert design with interchangeable heads of varying weights.

Working your way through these weights will allow you to work your pelvic floor muscles to a higher intensity and help towards even more intense orgasms and better sex. And that’s without even mentioning the vibrating side of the balls as well.

They come in an easy to insert design molded from silicone with USB recharge capabilities for convenience.

As always you connect to the device through the We-Vibe mobile app and can be set with up to 10 different modes of varying intensity and strength.

The balls have a small external arm/handle designed to keep them in place during use and provide further stimulation.



  • Waterproof design
  • Multiple vibration settings for increased intensity
  • Weighted balls help to work your kegel muscles over time


  • Controls can be a bit awkward to get around
  • Even on highest setting, vibrations may not be very strong for some people

Bottom Line

Weighted balls and toys are a great way to improve your kegel muscles and sex life. To that end the We-Vibe balls are no exception.

However if you are planning on using it as a full vibrator as much as an exercise toy, you may be left wanting a bit more. While it serves adequately as a vibrator, using it primarily as a kegel workout is your best bet.

Additionally, the multiple vibration settings and potential partner play through use of the app, does add a new level of fun that can be had from them.

4. We-Vibe Sync

The We-Vibe Sync Remote and App Control Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator is a crowd pleaser for couples looking to spice up their long distance relationship, as well as for solo masturbation.

The U-shaped vibrator has an insertable length of 2.8 inches and is curved for G-spot pleasure. The additional arm is nubbed and rests comfortably on the clitoris for added stimulation.

This couple’s vibrator is Bluetooth compatible and has a wireless remote for close-up action in the bedroom or in public, as well as a downloadable app for smartphones. It has multiple speeds and motions.

Additionally, the vibrator is complete with a unique music sync vibrating feature that allows solo or couples to be stimulated by the groove of the music.

The waterproof feature is an added bonus for fun in the shower or tub and the USB rechargeable battery is good for a full 90-minutes of playtime.



  • Waterproof
  • 100% silicone
  • Synchronization to music
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Flexible for comfortable fit
  • Multi-speed vibrations and motions
  • Perfect for G-spot and clitoris stimulation
  • Wireless remote control as well as downloadable smart phone app


  • Users found little to complain about

Bottom Line

The We-Vibe Sync Remote and App Control Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator is truly perfect for those looking for dual G-spot and clitoral stimulation. The insertable shaft fits comfortably while the nubbed arm provides external pleasure.

The wireless remote and downloadable smartphone app work together for close-up encounters and for good during long distance connectivity.

With the added bonus of a rechargeable battery, the only downside for some users may be the price.

5. We-Vibe Verge

Next, let’s take a look at something a little different. The We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring with Perineum Massager is suited for men looking for vibrating pleasure with a partner or solo.

The stretchable cock ring has a width of 2.5 inches which fits comfortably for most.

The elongated shape helps with stimulating the penis shaft and the balls depending on positioning.

This vibrating cock ring had a powerful motor with 10-speeds and a push button control.

Long distance couples find that the smartphone app is user friendly, allowing for fun when you’re together or apart.

With the app, the speed can be changed rapidly at just the right time for an intense climax, or if you happen to be together as well, the added sensation of penis vibration a real turn-on during insertion.

The vibrating cock ring offers a USB rechargeable battery which is good for 1-1.5 hours of use. The waterproof feature is also a pleaser during bath time play.



  • 10-speeds
  • Waterproof
  • 100% silicone
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Stretchable easy fit cock ring
  • App controlled or push button control


  • Battery did not always hold a sufficient charge

Bottom Line

The We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring with Perineum Massager is great for solo and long distance masturbation.

The shape of the vibrating cock ring helps with stimulating the ball sack and is long enough to provide extra pleasure to the penis shaft.

To top it all off, the waterproof feature makes it perfect for play anywhere you please.

Price may be an issue for some buyers, but overall if you want to add a vibrating cock ring cock to your toy chest, this would be a perfect choice.


The LOVENSE Lush Bluetooth Remote Control Bullet Vibrator is ideal for couples and solo users looking for a powerful orgasm without sacrificing ease of use.

The 3.14 inches insertable shaft is smooth with a perfect G-spot curve, providing intense orgasms every time. The width of 1.4 inches makes for easy insertion.

There is also a second antennae arm to keep connectivity constant and provide clitoral stimulation.

The powerful motor boasts thousands of downloadable vibrating patterns which are also synchronizable to your favorite music.

The USB rechargeable battery holds a charge for almost 2 hours. To top it all off, it’s waterproof so the fun doesn’t have to stop at the tub.


  • Quiet
  • Waterproof
  • 100% silicone
  • Powerful motor
  • Downloadable smart phone app
  • Thousands of vibrating and motion patterns
  • Perfect shape for G-spot and clitoral stimulation


  • Recharging time is lengthy
  • Users would have liked an additional handheld wireless remote

Bottom Line

The LOVENSE Lush long distance vibrator is easy to use, has good connectivity, and offers several downloadable vibrating patterns.

The Bluetooth vibrator adds a new level to climaxes with its improved motor and impressive vibrating power.

The insertable shaft is shaped perfectly for G-spot stimulation, with the added bonus of flexible antenna for clitoral stimulation.

This is a must have Bluetooth vibrator for couples in a long distance relationship. Read our full Lovense Lush vibrator review.


The LOVENSE Vibrating Butt Plug will have your toes curling with intense anal stimulation.

The butt plug boasts a 3.8 inches smooth tapered shaft with spirals to help keep the plug in place during use. The 1.5 inch width is ideal for comfortable insertion, made even easier with a curved finger handle.

There are several features that make this butt plug stand apart, including the powerful motor which offers 1.5-2 hours of play time when fully charged.

The app controlled butt plug also features synchronization to music and is perfect for those in long distance relationships who want to put their partners in control. 

The waterproof feature is fantastic in the shower or tub whether playing solo, with a partner, or long distance.


  • Waterproof
  • 100% silicone
  • Easy to use handle
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Discreet app controlled
  • Synchronization to music
  • Perfect size for anal pleasure
  • Spiral taper helped keep in place


  • Problems with recharging after several uses
  • Bluetooth app control disconnected at times

Bottom Line

The LOVENSE Hush-The Most Powerful Vibrating Butt Plug is definitely a crowd pleaser, but not without its share of problems.

Although the butt plug has some connectivity problems, this long distance app controlled butt plug works well overall for both close-up and long distance range.

The vibrations are discreet and offer the ability to be synchronized with music. For the price users should be aware of connectivity problems, but the company offers a ton of support.

8. Nuo By Je Joue Luxury

The Nuo By Je Joue Luxury App Controlled Rechargeable Dual Motor Butt Plug is an excellent choice for advanced users looking for more girth and length when masturbating with a butt plug.

The 4 inch smooth insertable shaft has a slight curve to provide ultimate prostate stimulation. For those who love a feeling of fullness, the 4.25 inch circumference offers plenty of girth.

The butt plug has a powerful dual motor, with one in the bulb and the other at the base. There are five speeds and seven vibrating patterns to provide ultimate pleasure.

The butt plug is operated by a downloadable smartphone app, complete with vibrating patterns that can synchronized to music.

It is also waterproof for extra stimulation during aquatic play.



  • Waterproof
  • 100% silicone
  • USB rechargeable battery
  • Plenty of length and girth
  • Perfect for advanced users
  • Dual motors in bulb and base
  • Downloadable smart phone app
  • 5 speeds and 7 vibration patterns
  • Curved shaft for prostate stimulation


  • Users found this butt plug almost flawless

Bottom Line

The Nuo By Je Joue Luxury App Controlled Rechargeable Dual Motor Butt Plug is ideal for those searching for the perfect Bluetooth butt plug with lots of girth and length.

This little number has dual motors for added stimulation at the bulb and base for an intensified climax.

The downloadable smartphone app is perfect for long distance couples, making it easy switch speeds and vibrating patterns from a distance.

If you can handle the price this of Bluetooth butt plug, this is the one to buy.


As you can see from our review, there are numerous long distance vibrators to satisfy just about everyone’s needs.

We found that many of the downloadable smartphone apps were effective in helping restore intimacy in a long distance relationship.

There are many features discussed above that you can choose from to make your long distance vibrator work for you and your partner.

In the end, we know that a long distance relationships are hard, but with the help of a long distance vibrator you can cherish every moment with your partner no matter how far they are.

1 thought on “Staying in Touch From Afar: The Best Long Distance Sex Toys of 2019”

  1. You forgot Max and Nora. 🙂 Although they come with their share of problems, sex toys that intimate sex are few and definitely useful for long distance relationships. Makes it feel less “one sided.” (While very enjoyable for me to use a toy he can control, it’s still one sided for me which is where toys like these can come in.)

    I know of only two companies who have succeeded: Lovense and whoever made Onyx and Pearl.

    Hopefully they eventually combine long distance couple toys to have realistic dildos sleeves.. but alas, that seems a long time coming.


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