Best Male Sex Toys Rated & Reviewed | 2019 Buyer’s Guide

Long gone are the days where sex toys were designed solely for female use. The male sex industry is huge now and there are literally toys to stimulate any body part you have. In fact, there are thousands of toys for each body part so determining which one you want can be a pretty tricky task. But, we are here to help!

Here are our picks for the best male toys of the year and some things to consider before you buy.

Comparison Chart of the Best Male Sex Toys


Our Rating


Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit STU Fleshlight


Anal Fantasy Ass-Gasm Silicone Cock Ring Butt Plug


TENGA Egg Wavy Textured Male Masturbator


We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Silicone Rechargeable Penis Ring


Colt Mighty Vibrating Mouth Masturbator with Suction Cup


Hot Octopuss PULSE III Solo Vibrating Male Masturbator


Performance Prostimulator VX1 Prostate Massager


M For Men Ribbed Super Stroker Masturbation Sleeve – Clear


Performance Plus – 9 Inch Silicone Cock Sheath Penis Extender


Dr Joel Kaplan Vibrating Testicle Stimulator


Types of Male Sex Toys

Male sex toys come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes and you can find a toy to stimulate basically any part of your body. These are some of the most popular styles available.


Fleshlights are a brand of male masturbator and they are pretty much the best of the best when it comes to finding something close to the real thing. If you want to train yourself to last longer during sex, or just want something that will get you off and replicate real sex, this is your best bet! The material is super soft and lifelike and you can get toys molded from vaginas, butts, mouths and even your favorite porn stars.

P-spot Massagers

These are a group of toy designed to stimulate and massage the male prostate or P-spot. This is an extremely sensitive area and men that have experienced this stimulation claim that their orgasms are the most intense they can be when this area is stimulated. These toys can be used alone or during penis stimulation too. With or without a partner!


Strokers are a type of male masturbator that you use to stroke the penis. They are generally made of lifelike materials like soft TPE or silicone and are often on the smaller side so that you can hold them and stroke up and down. They are great for solo play, foreplay or even as part of oral sex if they are small enough.

Vibrating Masturbators

These are a group of male masturbators that allow you to enjoy all the sensation of a masturbator with the added benefit of vibrating too. This is a sensation like no other and in some cases will even mimic the movement of a mouth or tongue to replicate oral sex. Some of them you will need to hold yourself but there are also hands-free options too.

Considerations When Buying a Male Sex Toys

These are the most important things to consider when you are choosing which male sex toy to buy.

Which Body Part Do You Want to Stimulate?

Do you want a toy that will stimulate the penis, the testicles, the butt, the prostate or the nipples? Yup, there are a lot of options out there and while some toys will stimulate more than one area, others will be solely for one body part.  If you are searching online, you will need to know in advance as this will help you determine which categories to look in.

What do You Want to Achieve?

The term sex toy is actually pretty broad and while many of the toys are designed to provide an orgasm, you can also get toys which will increase the size of your penis, give you a harder erection or even just satisfy your partner.

Are You Playing Alone or With a Partner?

This is super important to consider too! Some toys like Fleshlights are better for solo play but there are smaller strokers designed to be used alongside a blow job too. The same goes for toys like a cock ring. If you want a bigger erection, then you may want a simple ring but if you want to stimulate your partner then you can get a vibrating option!

Review of the Best Male Sex Toys

Now we’re going to switch gears and take a look at some of our favorite sex toys that are designed for those who identify as men. We’ve gathered a great list of toys and can’t want to outline which ones stand out!

1. Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit STU Fleshlight


  • The material is super lifelike and feels almost as good as the real thing.
  • This Fleshlight also includes a small lubricant sample and refresh powder sample so you can get playing straight away.
  • If you look after your Fleshlight, you will have it for a long time. These are the best quality male masturbators you can get.


  • As with all masturbators, cleaning can be difficult. You need to thoroughly wash it, leave to dry completely then use refreshing powder to keep it soft.

You can’t make a list of the best male sex toys without including a Fleshlight of some sort. These are a brand of male masturbators that are really the best of the best if you are looking for something that is super lifelike.

The Pink Lady STU, in particular, is a great option as it is a classic vagina style and is a bit tighter than other Fleshlights meaning that it doubles as a training unit for those that reach orgasm a bit faster than they would like. The inner sleeve of the unit is ribbed the way along for stimulation and the outer case is nice and sturdy for you to grip onto.

You can also tighten and loosen the end of the case to apply more or less suction to the penis as you use it. The inner canal has a diameter of 0.5 inches which stretches a lot with lubricant, and the internal length of the toy is 9 inches so there is lots of room for you to stroke.

Bottom Line

If you have the time and energy to take care of this toy, then it will be your absolute favorite! It’s almost as good as the real thing… almost!

2. Anal Fantasy Ass-Gasm Silicone Cock Ring Butt Plug


  • 2 in 1 toy that will make your orgasm super intense.
  • It’s pretty cheap for what you get from it and is made from silicone it should last a long time too.
  • You also get a 5-piece prep set with this toy. It has a small anal lube, an anal eaze insert, 2 x finger sleeves and a toy cleaner.


  • You can’t use silicone lube with this toy so stick to water-based.
  • The cord between the ring and the anal plug is on the shorter side. You will likely need to use the ring around the penis and scrotum for it to fit comfortably.

This isn’t your standard P-spot massager. This toy will take your orgasm to a whole new level and beyond! The ass-gasm is actually a P-spot massager and a cock ring all in one. So you get the benefit of a cock ring – prolonged play, a stronger erection and a super strong orgasm – as well as prostate massage too.

Hello, orgasmic bliss! The toy is made entirely from silicone so it is super smooth and easy to stretch the ring and insert the plug portion. The plug measures 4 inches in length and 1.25 inches’ width at its widest point. The ring has a 1.5-inch minimum diameter.

Bottom Line

This is a great toy for those that love prostate stimulation and want to play longer too!

3. TENGA Egg Wavy Textured Male Masturbator


  • Includes a lube sachet to get you started.
  • It stretches up to 12 inches which is much larger than many other male masturbators. Perfect for the big boys out there.
  • It has a super discreet egg shape and no one would ever guess that there is a masturbator inside.


  • They are designed for one-time use.
  • TENGA eggs are lighter than other masturbators and you will still be able to feel your hand as you stroke.

Want to try a male masturbator but not sure if you will like it? A TENGA egg might be the perfect option. These male masturbators are designed as one time only toys, but if you look after it and use it as directed you will actually be able to get a few uses from it. This TENGA egg has a wavy textured inner sleeve which can be stretched to pleasure up to 12 inches. It’s made from TPE so is delicate but very stretchy so long as you add a lot of lube.

Bottom Line

If you want to try a masturbator out, then this is an awesome and super enjoyable option. It just won’t last you very long.

4. We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Silicone Rechargeable Penis Ring



  • It’s USB rechargeable so you don’t need to worry about batteries.
  • The vibrating portion is big enough to cover most female anatomies and offer optimal vibration.
  • It can be controlled through the We-Vibe app so you don’t have to worry about losing a remote control.


  • It is on the expensive side for a cock ring but you get what you pay for!
  • The ring itself is on the firmer side and while it does stretch a little, it will be firm and is not really suitable for men with larger girths.

If you want a toy that can be worn during sex and that will give your partner pleasure too, then a vibrating cock ring is perfect. This one, in particular, is a great option if you have a female partner as the vibrating part is nice and broad meaning that there is more room for stimulation of the clitoris.

There are 7 patterns and 3 speeds to choose from so your partner won’t get bored anytime soon! Of course, you get some fun too with the classic cock ring benefits of a harder erection and more explosive orgasm. The ring itself has a minimum diameter of 1.03 inches and a maximum diameter of 2 inches when it is fully stretched.

Bottom Line

This cock ring is all about pleasure for both of you. It is an investment piece so make sure you measure yourself properly to ensure a comfortable fit.

5. Colt Mighty Mouth Textured Vibrating Male Masturbator with Suction Cup


  • The suction cup allows you to use this toy hands-free.
  • You can remove the internal sleeve so that it is easier to clean.
  • It is also waterproof so you can even attach this toy to the shower wall and go for gold.


  • The internal length is quite short so it is not the best for penetration.
  • It is battery operated and it uses a lot of batteries so it can get expensive.
  • There aren’t many instructions and you may need to go online for more information if you are struggling to use it correctly.

Love oral? Then you will love this! The Colt Mighty Mouth is a hands-free male masturbator that mimics oral sex without the need for stroking. It attaches to a hard, flat surface with the super strong suction cup and is moveable so that you can point the toy in the exact direction that you want it.

The internal sleeve is made up from lots of silicone tongues to feel like the real thing. There are also 30 different vibration functions with all sorts of speeds and patterns to get you going. The internal diameter of the canal is 2 inches and the internal length is 4.5 inches.

Bottom Line

If you want hands free oral fun, then look no further. Just keep in mind that you will need a lot of batteries.

6. Hot Octopuss PULSE III Solo Vibrating Male Masturbator


  • It is fully silicone, waterproof and very powerful!
  • Perfect for erect or flaccid penises and can help men with ED.
  • The Pulse has expanding wings which can accommodate any penis size.


  • This is a loud toy, even on the lowest settings.
  • The buttons are quite stiff and it can be difficult to change the settings while the Pulse is in use.
  • The oscillations can actually numb the hand holding the toy after a while. So it’s not really ideal for prolonged play.

The Hot Octopuss Pulse III is another male masturbator, but this one does things slightly differently. Rather than using a skin-like material or vibration to bring you to orgasm, it actually uses something called oscillations. This is a very fast movement up and down on a pulse plate, a sensation which feels seriously amazing.

What is super cool about this toy is that it can be used with an erect penis to bring you to orgasm or it can be used with a flaccid penis too. This is perfect for men that can not achieve an erection by themselves and has in some cases actually been able to help men with ED become erect prior to penetrative sex. There are five modes of oscillation and different speeds to play with and you can choose to either stroke the penis with the toy or just rest the penis inside it.

Bottom Line

This is a very powerful toy that is great for foreplay or the main course! It is also a great option for men that cannot achieve an erection on their own.

7. Performance Prostimulator VX1 Prostate Massager


  • The small size is perfect for beginners!
  • The narrow anal plug makes it very easy to insert and remove.
  • The toy is made from ABS plastic so it can be used with either water-based or silicone lubricant.


  • ABS plastic is hard and it can be uncomfortable for some wearers.
  • It is small and you may want to move up to a larger size after a few uses.

This is an inexpensive P-spot massager that is perfect for beginners for prostate play. This toy has a thin internal butt plug that is perfectly curved to massage the p-spot, and a bulbous taint stimulator to give you some extra stimulation while you play.

The anal part is 1-inch-wide and measures 3.5 inches in length so is a nice, small size for beginners. The base of the toy is narrow so is comfortable to clench down on but is still safe for hands-free play as there are flared arms to make sure the toy doesn’t go anywhere it shouldn’t!

Bottom Line

This is a great introductory prostate massager that is small and cheap for beginner users.

8. M For Men Ribbed Super Stroker Masturbation Sleeve


  • The stroker is small enough and discreet enough that you can travel with it and not raise eyebrows at security scans
  • It is nice and cheap and can be used multiple times so long as you look after it.
  • It can be used as part of couples play too without getting in the way.


  • You really have to run hot water and soap through it to make sure it is thoroughly cleaned out

This male stroker is the perfect addition to all sorts of play. It can be used for solo masturbation, or as part of foreplay and even with oral sex.

This is a super stretchy stroker made from TPE that is soft, realistic feeling and has 4 rows of pleasure pearls in the ribbed canal, which massage your shaft for the utmost in intense stimulation. The internal canal diameter is 2-inches un-stretched and the length is 4.5 inches.

Bottom Line

This is a multi-purpose stroker that can be used alone but will probably be better when used in a partnered situation.

9. Performance Plus – 9 Inch Silicone Cock Sheath Penis Extender


  • This toy will add a lot of length and girth so is great for those that like it big!
  • There is still some sensation for the wearer so make sure you lube up the inside as well to make the most of it.
  • The sleeve is tight enough to create a bit of a vacuum seal to keep it on.
  • It is made of silicone so it is body safe and non-porous, making it easy to clean


  • It is way too big for beginners.
  • The ball strap can be a bit difficult to put on and can snag on hair unless you use lube

Want porn star proportions when you play? This penis extender will do it! This type of toy is really all about pleasing your partner and it is great as part of roleplay or simply when you want to experiment with something larger than life.

It can give you a length of 9 inches and add up to 66% more girth to your natural penis size. It has a super lifelike feel to it and is nice and soft, even along the added veins. The internal canal diameter is 1.1 inches and the internal length  is 6 inches.

Bottom Line

This is a very big penis extension and is not for beginners! This is a semi firm sleeve that you can actually add extra length and extra girth too while being held in place by the ball strap. As mentioned, this is the perfect toy to spice things up during a role-play scenario.

10. Dr. Joel Kaplan Vibrating Testicle Stimulator


  • You get all the benefit of a cock ring too!
  • There are big holes on the pocket so that your testicles can still breath and you can even further stimulate the skin using your fingers.
  • The bullet is removable so you can use it as a bullet vibrator anywhere else on the body too.


  • The silicone pocket is not very stretchy and it can be quite hard to get on. Use lube and roll it on from the bottom.
  • The silicone absorbs some of the vibrations so it does not spread evenly across the whole testicles.

Don’t forget the balls! This vibrating testicle stimulator has a silicone cock ring to keep your erection firm and a silicone pocket for your testicles with a vibrating bullet at the bottom.

The bullet has 3 different vibration speeds to stimulate your testicles while you play. You can use it alone or with a partner and even remove the bullet entirely to use it without the rest of the toy. The bullet and ring are made from silicone so make sure you only use a water-based lubricant.

Bottom Line

This is a fun addition to solo and partnered playtime for those that love ball stimulation, however, it is not ideal for men with testicles on the larger side.

Why it’s Important to Be Discreet Sometimes

Quality sex toys come in a variety of sizes, from handheld to more substantial. While larger toys are perfect for that solo session for fun with your partner, being discreet comes with its own benefits.

Many discreet toys – several models that you will find on our list – are disguised as everyday objects. Your favorite vibrator can look like a sponge, a neck massager, a toiletry item (lipstick vibes are a favorite among women).

These items are the best for travel because they look like anything you would take with you on a routine trip or vacation. Discreet toys are also valuable If you have a lack of privacy – such as if you still live with your parents or you have roommates. What looks like a basic neck massager or a sponge to them will be the reason for your toe-curling pleasure.

Qualities of Our Favorite Male Sex Toys

Let’s take a look at some of the top features that contribute toward discreet male sex toys.


The most discreet sex toy is very small. Ideally, try choosing an item that can fit in the palm of your hand. You don’t have to sacrifice size for power. Several discreet models have strong motors that really pack a punch.


These toys fit neatly in your pocket while you are on-the-go, or they travel well by other methods. Toys that you can place into a carrying case, such as a storage box or a toy bag, are more convenient than carrying larger items around with you.

Texture and Cleanliness

While most discreet toys range in their texture, choosing the most comfortable toy for you is ideal. What’s the point in having this amazing toy you can bring anywhere, and you don’t enjoy it? Selecting a model made of silicone or ABS plastic is the best way to go. The material is non-porous, so they are easier to clean, and they are better for your body. These toys are smooth and comfortable, and they pair well with water-based lubricant.


If you plan on flying with your toy, toys that are metal-free will not set off metal detectors in your luggage. Items that are pure silicone or ABS plastic are the best options for getting through airport security.

Purchasing your batteries when you get to your destination and discarding them before you travel home is much more convenient.

This is where rechargeable toys are at their best. With a toy that recharges with a USB cable or some other means, you don’t have to deal with batteries at all.  


Trust me, no matter which body part you want to stimulate, there will be a toy your love you do just that. Finding the perfect one can take time so hopefully, this list will help you make the right decision.

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