Best Sex Toys for Couples | 2019 Buyer’s Guide Review

When it comes to toys for couples, some sex toys are more suitable than others.

The good thing is, lately there has been an influx of toys designed with couples in mind so there's now a lot to choose from. 

In this guide, we're going to highlight some of the best sex toys for couples and break them down into several categories.

Best Sex Toys for Couples | Comparison Chart


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Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Rabbit Cock Ring

Couples Vibrators

Lovehoney Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator

Couples Vibrators

Lovehoney Sexploration Sex Toy Kit (12 Piece)

Sex Toy Kits

Fifty Shades Darker Principles of Lust Kit

Sex Toy Kits

BASICS Vibrating Finger Bullet


Lovehoney Oh! Feather Tickler


We-Vibe Sync Couple's Vibrator

Long Distance

Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Penis Molding Kit

Long Distance

Bondage Boutique Bondage Kit (6 Piece)


Scandal Expandable Spreader Bar


b-Vibe Remote Control Vibrating Butt Plug


Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Anal Prober


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Types of Sex Toys You and Your Partner Will Love

Using sex toys with your partner is super fun, and no matter what type of play or stimulation you are into, there will be a toy that makes it even better.

A pretty common toy for couples is couples vibrators. These are any type of vibrating toy that can be used to amp up your foreplay or be worn during sex to add some extra stimulation. We will look at some of these styles below.

Restraint play and bondage toys are another awesome option for those that like heightened sensitivity and power play.

If you are into anal, then there are all sorts of toys that you can use on each other or can be controlled by the other person while in use.

Remote control toys make couples anal play super fun! And of course, if you aren’t sure what you like then there are kits with all sorts of toys in them so you can get a taste for a few different types of play.

Toys aren't just for kids anymore.

Review of the Best Sex Toys for Couples

Let’s have a look at some of the best couples toys on the market and what they are good for.

Best Couple’s Vibrators

1. Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring

A vibrating cock ring is a wearable couple’s vibrator that is placed on the shaft of the penis, leaving your hands free to roam where you like them.

This one, in particular, is a cheap but effective way to add some extra stimulation to your partnered sex.

This cock ring has two rings, one that goes around the shaft of the penis making the erection harder, and one that goes around the scrotum to make the male last longer.

There are also vibrating ears to stimulate the other partner while you play so no one misses out on the fun! The removable bullet vibe has 2 vibration speeds and 3 different patterns to explore.



  • You get all the benefits of a cock ring plus vibration too!
  • The ring is made of super stretchy silicone so it will be firm but still comfortable for the wearer.
  • It is a hands-free, wearable couples vibes so you can use your hands for stimulation elsewhere.


  • It is a battery operated and is not waterproof. Remove the bullet when you clean it.
  • The clitoral ears are a little flimsy and require positions without too much movement to really stimulate properly. Girl on top is a goody!

Bottom Line

This is a great non-expensive way to add a couples vibrator into your play, plus you get all the benefits of a cock ring too.

2. Lovehoney Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator

If you want a couple’s vibrator that is a bit more versatile, then this mini wand massager might be just the thing.

Mini wand massagers make great couples toys as they are small enough to be used during foreplay or sex without getting in the way or requiring any awkward sex positions.

Even though this is a mini style, it still has 10 speeds and 7 different patterns and its pretty powerful.

It is also USB rechargeable so you never need to worry about running out of batteries. The head of the toy is made from soft silicone and the neck is super flexible so you can get it exactly where you like it.

While wands are primarily used to stimulate the clitoris, they were actually designed as an all-over muscle massager and they are perfect for use on your back or shoulders too.



  • It is actually fairly quiet too, especially for it's power.
  • It is very powerful and just as strong as longer wand massagers.
  • USB rechargeable means you can charge it anywhere you have a charging point and its great to take away on vacation.


  • It doesn’t come with a storage bag which is a bit of a bummer.
  • The ridged edges making cleaning properly difficult so just take care to really get into those grooves.

Bottom Line

This is a pretty hard wand vibe to fault. It is versatile, powerful and is bound to satisfy and relax any couple.  

Best Sex Toy Kits for Couples

1. Lovehoney Sexploration Mega Couple's Sex Toy Kit (12 Piece)

For the couple’s that really want to try it all without the huge price tag, then this pack will be perfect.

The Sexploration kit has 12 different products to try and they pretty much cover every body part you can possibly have. So no one and no erogenous zone misses out on the fun.

They also make it even fun by hiding each one behind its very own cardboard door just like an advent calendar… although slightly more grown up.

With this kit, you will receive wrist cuffs, nipple clamps, a penis extender, Kegel balls, a blindfold, a G-spot vibrator, a bullet vibrator, a vibrating cock ring, a mini stroker, sex dice, a butt plug and an arousal cream. Whew!



  • You get 12 different products to try!
  • Even if you don’t like everything, it is great value for money.
  • You can make things even more fun by opening up a new door a day to spice things up.


  • This is a big parcel so just consider that when you are getting it delivered.
  • The quality of the products may not be the absolute best as it is all about trying them out and deciding what you like.

Bottom Line

This is an awesome way to have a whole lot of fun and test out a bunch of products that you may not have considered before.  

2. Fifty Shades Darker Principles of Lust Romantic Couple's Kit

For those that like their playtime to be a little darker, there is also this great set from the Fifty Shades Darker sex toy range.

Regardless of whether you like the books or the films, you have to admit this set is pretty damn sexy.

This kit has a mix of both toys and bondage gear, designed to heighten your senses and make every touch feel even more sensitive.

This kit has a blindfold, a feather tickler, silk wrist or ankle restraints, a finger vibe and an adjustable cock ring.

It’s a great introduction into bondage play with a few toys thrown in to amp things up a notch too.



  • The quality of the toys is super impressive for the price.
  • It is a non-intimidating collection with nothing too scary in there.
  • The products are all very beautiful and it’s a great sexy gift for a partner.


  • It doesn’t come with any storage and you have quite a lot to find a home for.
  • The finger vibe is on the buzzier end of the scale and isn’t quite as powerful as some may like.

Bottom Line

Overall, this is a very sexy kit that is a great introduction to bondage restraint play.

Best Cheap Sex Toys for Couple’s

1. BASICS Vibrating Finger Bullet

Shopping on a budget? That doesn’t mean that you can’t find a great sex toy for cheap.

This finger vibrator by BASICS is a perfect addition to any playtime, as you just pop it on your finger and you become the vibrator.

You can use it anywhere externally on the body and its nice and small so is perfect for couple’s play.

There are light wings for a tickling sensation and firmer nodules for a more direct vibration too. And if you want even more intense vibration you can remove the bullet vibe and use it without the sleeve directly against the skin.



  • Its battery operated so it should have a nice long life.
  • You can remove the bullet for a direct stimulation against the skin.
  • It’s a small non-invasive and non-intimidating option and is a great choice for first-time sex toy users.


  • It’s more about adding some extra stimulation than bringing you to orgasm by itself.
  • It is only a single speed toy and that speed may not be strong enough for more advanced users.

Bottom Line

This is a super fun addition to solo or couples playtime, just don’t think that it will do all the work for you as it might not be strong enough.  

2. Lovehoney Oh! Feather Tickler

In my mind, feather ticklers are one of the most underrated adult toys out there.

These simple little things offer a lot of stimulation and are a great addition to get your aroused get your nerve endings all over the body tingling in anticipation.

This tickler is made from super soft marabou feathers and it can be used anywhere on the body to heighten sensitivity.

The feeling is very light so it is a great toy to use alongside something else like a vibrator to mix up the two sensations.



  • This toy is super affordable.
  • This tickler can be used by anyone from beginner to advanced.
  • It’s extremely discreet and can be easily hidden away or left on display without it being an obvious sex toy.


  • Ticklers are not made to last and the feathers will start to shed over time.
  • These feathers are particularly light, so it may feel softer than some other styles.

Bottom Line

These are an ideal cheap addition to spice things up and add some extra stimulation to your playtime.

Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couple’s

1. We-Vibe Sync App and Remote Control Couple's Vibrator

Just because you are apart, that doesn’t mean that you can’t still play together.

The We-Vibe Sync is a couple’s vibe that can be used together during sex, or apart as a solo female toy.

The best bit about it is that you can control the vibration of the toy from anywhere in the world via the we-connect app.

When you use the toy together, it offers hands-free clitoral and vaginal vibration as well as vibration to the penis.

If you are using it apart, the woman can wear the toy alone while her partner controls the speed and pattern of vibration using the app.

So long as you have an internet connection, you are good to go! It’s made from super soft silicone and there are all sorts of different vibration patterns to explore.



  • It can be used together or alone.
  • You don’t need to be together to enjoy pleasure with one another. There is even a video calling option on the app so you can play face to face.
  • There are super cool features like Beat Mode that vibrates in time to your favorite songs, or Touch Mode where you use the swipe of your finger on the app to control the vibration.


  • The toy does not sit comfortably inside all anatomies.
  • If you don’t have a great internet connection, then it can be a real nuisance as it won’t work how you want it to.
  • When you use the We-vibe together it has a tendency to pop out and is not quite as hands-free as they claim.

Bottom Line 

This is one of the most popular couples sex toys in the world and if it works for your body then you will love it. If it doesn’t quite fit, then you may need to hold it in place while you play.  

2. Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Create Your Own Penis Molding Kit

Now for something a little different, the Clone-A-Willy vibrator! What better toy to keep your partner satisfied during a long distance relationship than a perfect vibrating replica of your man's penis?!

The Clone-A-Willy kit lets you make the vibrator yourself off an actual mold of the penis. So it’s super fun to make and super fun to use.

It’s a silicone casting kit so it’s body safe for both of you and will feel nice and squishy and soft just like the real thing too. Just add batteries and you are ready to go!



  • It is just as much fun to make as it is to use.
  • It’s a silicone product so is long lasting and body safe.
  • You can play with it together or when you are apart too. It’s also fine for anal use!


  • Making it can get pretty messy so get your handy wipes ready.
  • The time frame to get it right is pretty small and there are no guarantees that it will turn out perfectly.

Bottom Line

If you get it right, then this will likely become one of your favorites toys but it will take careful precision to get there. It’s a fun process though.

Best Kinky Sex Toys for Couple’s

1. Bondage Boutique Dominant Dream Bondage Kit (6 Piece)

If you are after some kinky fun with your partner, then a great place to start is with a bondage kit like this one.

This kit has everything you need for a naughty night in with your partner and it’s all made from super high-quality faux leather, meaning that it is vegan-friendly too.

In this kit, you will get a faux leather flogger, a blindfold, wrist and ankle cuffs, an adjustable collar, a 39-inch leash and a breathable ball gag.

It’s up to you whether you want to use it all together or just play with a piece or two at once.



  • It’s vegan-friendly leather!
  • You get all 6 pieces for a really great price that won’t break the bank.
  • This set suits all levels of experience. Start small and work up to the more intense toys in the kit.


  • Some of the clasps aren’t super strong so don’t tug too hard when in use.
  • The ball gag is very big and it may be a struggle to use this if it is your first one.

Bottom Line

This is a very sexy kit with everything you need for a fun night of power play. Just don’t tug too hard and remember to use a safe word!

2. Scandal Expandable Spreader Bar

If you want something to really amp up the kink factor, then check out this awesome spreader bar by Scandal.  

Spreader bars are pieces of positioning equipment that put one partner into position and keep them there.

This one is a metal bar that adjusts from 24 – 26 inches wide, it attaches to the wearer’s ankles and keeps their legs wide open.

What’s great about this one is that it also has a pretty padded sleeve over the top so that it looks super sexy and it can be broken down into three parts for easy storage.


  • It is really easy to use and adjust.
  • Being metal, it is strong and durable so will last and last.
  • It’s a simple but really sexy toy to play with that can be used in all sorts of positions.


  • The ankle cuffs are not included so you will need to grab some of those too.

Bottom Line

This spreader bar is a fun, kinky and simple way to amp up your playtime. Just don’t forget to grab those ankle cuffs. Any type with some sort of clip to attach will work.

Best Anal Sex Toys for Couple’s

1. b-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

Love rimming? Then boy, have I got the perfect toy for you.

The b-vibe rimming plug is a butt plug that has a vibrating tip as well as a row of rotating beads to stimulate the sphincter muscles.

These beads simulate the same feeling like a tongue in this area and it is a toy that offers something that no others do.

It’s made from super soft silicone and also comes with a remote control so that you or a partner can choose from the different vibration modes.

There are 5 speeds of vibration and 6 different patterns. The b-vibe measures 5 inches in insertable length and 5 inches’ circumference so it is a pretty big toy.



  • It is USB rechargeable and can be controlled on the toy at the base or via the remote control, making play super easy.
  • The rimming effect of the beads is super innovative and feels amazing. Totally different to a standard vibrating butt plug.
  • The quality of the product is really great, however, the price does match this and is on the higher side. It is worth it though.


  • The toy will be too big for some and is not recommended to beginner anal toy users.

Bottom Line

The b-vibe is a great toy for couples as you can use the remote control to control the others pleasure and watch them go wild.

2. Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober

Anal beads are another great couples toy that is perfect for beginners or more experienced users and can be used together during play, or while alone.

Just slide them before or during play, then slowly pull them out of your partner’s booty during their orgasm to send their pleasure through the roof!

These beads by Tracey Cox are perfect for couples as they have both small and large beads to work through and they are also curved slightly to target the male P-spot.

The beads themselves are firm which some flexibility and they have a finger loop at the end so you don’t lose them.

The best thing about beads is that you only need to insert them as far as you like and you will still get amazing stimulation as they go in and out.



  • These are nice and cheap.
  • The beads have a larger connector than usual between them making them really easy to clean.
  • These beads actually hit their largest point in the middle and then get smaller again, so are a great option for those that don’t like them too deep.


  • They are quite short compared to other styles and you will likely be left wanting more.

Bottom Line

These are a great booty toy for couples that want to explore anal beads without committing to something that is super long and intimidating.  

How to Care for Your New Toy

Now that you know a bit about what is available it's important to know how to care for your toy properly so that it lasts.

It’s really important to know what your toy is made is so that you can match it with the right lubricant.

Silicone toys, for example, can’t be used with silicone lubricant. If you are not sure, then stick to a water-based lube as this is suitable for use with all sex toy materials.

The other thing to consider is cleaning your toy. Your toys need to be cleaned before and after each use for them to be body safe.

Grab a toy cleaner like this one from Lovehoney and use it with warm water to get rid of any dust or bacteria. And always allow your toy to dry fully before you store it.


Using sex toys with a partner is a great way to really ignite that spark and get you super excited about each other.

There is a toy to suit every body part and every fetish, it just takes a bit of searching to find out what you are both into.

Always make sure you get consent before you introduce a toy too and respect your partner's decision if they aren’t into it. If you communicate openly, you should be able to find something to play with that you both love.

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